My husband and I dated for a jaw-dropping five years before we married in our late twenties/early thirties. You'd think we knew each other well enough that we'd easily transition to married life--but there were still plenty of surprises from the start. In honor of this Valentine's Day weekend, here are some of the lessons I've learned so far in our marriage:

Don't fear his faults. Pray and forgive. Know that your own shortcomings require more attention.